I was at a funeral today for a friend of mine. He was in his late forties, not even as old as me. He was a real bush man. He always got lots of huckleberries and wild asparagus and saskatoons. He grew a big garden. He canned and made lots of pickles. He hunted and fished, he always got a moose and a couple of deer every year. He was generous. He was always helping someone, dropping off food from his garden, meat from his freezer, firewood for people.
He helped the old folks, he would take old timers out hunting and fishing so they could remember how it was when they were younger. He was one of those people that did so much you would think there must have been three of him to be able to do all that.
He was a pretty grizzly character. Usually dirty from work. Cracked, calloused hands with dirt permanently in the cracks of his skin. Always about four days worth of beard and uncombed hair that kind of stuck out all over the place. A lot of people would think he was pretty scary.
He cut and sold firewood for a living. He was always up and out in the bush by first light. He got killed last week cutting wood. He was cutting a snag and the top broke out as the tree was falling. It came straight down on him and killed him.
There was probably 500 people at his funeral. It’s amazing to think of how many people he touched and helped out in little ways. So many people got up and told about him stopping by with a bag of moose meat or a couple of frozen salmon, or a box of vegies from his garden, or coming home to a pile of wood in their driveway. The funeral was beautiful, all those people, families, young moms with babies, lots of elders who had to be helped to walk. Literally hundreds of people who will miss him.
He wasn’t big on philosophy, not much for politics either. He just lived the best way he knew how. No judgement of people. He’d been through plenty himself. I’m so glad to have known him I wish I could have spent more time with him.